This hotty had a desperate craving for women…
And got hypnotized by an older lady!

Text: Tony Ndungu
Photo: Edwin Ochieng (TUKO), Depositphotos

This hotty had a desperate craving for women…
And got hypnotized by an older lady!

Text: Tony Ndungu
Photo: Edwin Ochieng (TUKO), Depositphotos
Hi! My name is Tonny and I love women. That is how we are told to introduce ourselves at addiction rehabs. I am not sure if I have an addiction – yet. But yes, I love women.

One fine Friday afternoon, I found myself sitting with a woman. I am in my late 20's and she (Ms T) is in her mid-50's. Before you say WTF!! Read on, this story has a happy ending. Literally! And please get your head out of the gutter.

Just to repeat. I love women.
One fine Friday afternoon, I found myself sitting with a woman. I am in my late 20's and she (Ms T) is in her mid-50's. Before you say WTF!! Read on, this story has a happy ending.
It was going to be my first time to meet Ms T. I was introduced to her by a workmate who told me Ms T was a different woman. I like different. My workmate linked me up with Ms. T and even set up the first meeting. A day before the date, I received an email from Ms T. A very polite email saying she looked forward to seeing me the next day. She even shared directions to her house.

I would be lying if I said my imagination did not go wild. And guess what? Ms T has a pet name that she signed off her email with. She calls herself The Indian Black Butterfly. Wohooooo! I already loved this woman. She had all the characters of a very adventurous woman. Every man's dream. Especially a man in his 20's who loves women.
Our date was at noon. From her email she had said she had blocked 1.30 hours just for me. In my excitement, I thought we were to meet at 1:30pm. Blame it on my excitement hormones. It was not until my workmate asked me when I was leaving did I notice the confusion. Damn!
Meeting Ms T
I was 15 minutes late for my first date with Ms T. Yes, I know a man must never keep a woman waiting. Even before formal introductions, she asked me if I trusted her. I mean, girl, I just met you and we are talking about trust? Eish! Come slowly.

I have never met such a time-fussy person in my life. Ms T scoffed at my lateness excuse and I had to apologize three times before we started chatting.

Ms T is a stunning 56-year-old bundle of everything. She was dressed in a pink two-piece outfit with black detail, she looked every bit like your 22-year-old neighbour. In our previous email exchanges, I had confessed that I had an addiction to women. Well, that is what landed me an invite to Ms T's house. She promised to help me deal.
Her house is a simple cross between African and Bohemian décor. Warm brown hues and colourful cushions thrown generously on her vintage couches. Three of the walls in the house area are adorned with butterflies, a symbol of freedom from a woman who refused to be tied down by her Indian past or a later Christian relationship.

Her hair, as dark as tar sat on her head like a crown, she wore a dash of make-up, lip balm and one flirty earring that dangled to her left shoulder.
Ms T at home
Ms T at home
Lying on the couch
After mumbling that I trusted her. She asked me to lie on her couch. Ms T is a hypnotherapist. Not one of those jokers on YouTube who tell you to croak like a toad, or hiss like a snake. Or otherwise. I mean Ms T is a real life trained and tried hypnotist based in Nairobi.

So I removed my sneakers and jumped onto the couch like an excited toddler who had been promised candy. I was eager, anxious and excited. A bag of mixed emotions as I waited patiently. I wanted to use hypnotherapy as part of myself awareness.

Hypnosis is a very fascinating and intriguing subject.

Ms T tells me it is like magic. "As we put the Conscious Mind to rest and communicate with the Subconscious mind where everything is stored, the results are extremely effective," she explains.
Hypnosis is a very fascinating and intriguing subject.

Ms T tells me it is like magic. "As we put the Conscious Mind to rest and communicate with the Subconscious mind where everything is stored, the results are extremely effective," she explains.
Ms T combines her sessions with Talk therapy to engage the Conscious mind in creating new understanding about life and then going into the Subconscious mind to create new neuropathways to reprogram that which is no longer relevant and has caused a client pain and challenges. It is an extremely effective way to create lasting change in a person.

She charges KSh 10,000 for an hour and a half and KSh 14,000 for two hours. Apart from your wallet, all you need is an open mind and knowledge that the session is for your own good.
Getting hypnotised
A person will be asked to lie down or sit up depending on what type of mind constitution they have. There is an induction process with a script that ensures your conscious mind rests as you go into the subconscious mind. This does not mean you are thinking or sleeping.
You go into a different space which is very relaxing. The process takes about 30 minutes to one hour depending on the issue at hand. My issue was certain fixations with past relationships and getting bored too soon in new relationships.
We talked about what could have caused it. I didn't have an absentee father or any particular resentment towards women. We deduced that I was a jerk who was too selfish to man-up and respect one woman for a life-time of commitment. We had been in conversation before the interview and she had prepared the script pending my session.

The much I remember from my session which was recorded by our video guy is a calm, otherworldly warmth that started from my toes, up my feet and to my loins, my chest and finally rested on my head, giving me a feeling of utter profundity, peace and calm.

After the session, you can remember details and sometimes you will not which does not really matter as the work is done at that deep level.
Hypnotherapy helps healing at the deepest level of a person's psyche and changes distorted perceptions and beliefs.
This directly affects and changes how a person behaves. For example, if a person had issues with confidence and self-esteem, once the hypnotherapy changes that program, the person changes their behaviour and attitude and becomes confident with a high self-esteem.
Candidates for hypnotherapy
Anyone can go through hypnotherapy. Ms T tell me the important part is that the person is ready and has made the decision for themselves. She does not attend to people who have been "sent" by someone. "For example if a mother wants to send her daughter/son I will not agree unless the child/teenager/young adult decides for him or herself," she explains.

We all come from dysfunctional families as that has been the theme for centuries. From one generation to another we keep transferring the same distorted socialization and conditioning. There is not a single human being on the planet that does not have distortion of some sort or dysfunction.
Unmasking Ms T
Ms T's full name is Tazim Elkington, a Kenyan/Canadian national. She is a certified hypnotist with her own practice. She has clients from all over the world. They come to unfurl their life's misfortunes, turn around past pains, seek help to end loneliness, get over their parents issues, weigh-related problems, migraines, stress and simply become new and real people.
Hypnotherapy can cure illnesses, allergies, shift the frequency of the vibration a person is operating at. It is important to understand that illness and disease are symptoms that have a far deeper root cause that is identified as one goes through the healing process.
Tazim Elkington
Hypnotherapist
She strongly believes that progressive change is an integral and essential path in life. Her determination and commitment are to be the change through her work, as she puts it "one person at a time".
A trained public speaker, Tazim worked with various corporates in Kenya like: Cellulant Kenya, Planning interiors, Global focus Doshi group, GH4HUB UNHCR, USAID, Cap Kenya, Tribe hotel among others.

Elkington says that the healing process is gradual and depends on an individual.

I am now part of the statistics. When I get out there, I will let her know how my ship is faring.

For more information, please checkout www.tazim.net or contact her on indianblackbutterfly@gmail.com

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